More Money, More Problems

This is income tax season, right? There are a lot of income tax filers each and ever year, so for all new filers be careful. I say this because I am one and since I worked all last year I am getting a nice amount back from taxes. I feel that I work hard for my earnings but with that everyone who knows my return are asking for a share. This is resulting in more problems that there should be. I get statements and questions from relatives to friends. I, personally, do not have a problem with giving to my family but when you are providing for yourself it's complicated. I have had plans throughout this year for what I wanted and feel like I deserve but my family and friends do not seem to understand. I wish we could just get by this situation but the situation is not going to get resolve unless I give them what they want. It leaves me with the issue of not giving them anything and having them   hold that against me. Also the issue of them having grudges and hold burdens. It is as if I was my own's family celebrity. I am only 19 and would like to live some of my fantasies while I have the financial benefits but no one respects my wishes. Since the I have encountered the money, I have had numerous phone calls and text messages wanting to know what I am doing, what am I doing later, well you get the point. I can't wait until all of this blow over and everything is back to normal. Money is not everything and it should not be.